Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Tonight was by far the best night I had at the club. And no, it's not because I got more numbers than usual, or even made more approaches than usual. It's because I realized something from reading articles here at sosuave.
Every time I went to the club in the past, it has always been a number game for me, I'd just go try to chat up as many girls as I can and to get as many numbers as I could. But, then I realized, that this isn't getting anywhere. I had the numbers, but no real attraction or rapport for these girls to remember me by. I never actually took the time to build attraction in any of these girls I approached. I finally realized quality is better than quantity. So tonight, I met less girls than I ever do, but, I still had a much better night. I took the time to talk, flirt, tease, and build attraction with these girls. So here's the story.
Tonight, as I was standing there having a drink, I pulled out my phone to see what time it was. This really cute blonde girl came over and asked if she could use my phone (Definitely a HB9). I said "Sure babe, just don't go running off with it." I handed her the phone, and as she talked I just stood there and tried the whole 'Staring into her left eye' thing. After about a minute, she hung up the phone, handed it back to me. Then she asked my name, and we got into some small talk together.
I ended up finding out it's her birthday during our convo, I gave her a birthday smooch on the cheek, and said "I bet you didn't think you'd meet the man of your dreams on your birthday." I put a nice, flirty smile on my face. This interaction with this HB9 felt very good, usually I still have butterflies in my stomach while talking. But for some reason, it's almost as if I could FEEL her attraction growing as we talked, and I felt extremely comfortable and confident with her. Finally I said "I'd like to have your number, and then a dance with you." She reached into my pocket and grabbed the phone this time, and we actually had a fun time putting it in there. I let her try to add the new contact information herself, and since she wasn't familiar with the phone, I guided her through the process.
After this, I grabbed her hand and she says "Hold on, come over here real quick." It turns out she wanted to show me to all of her friends first haha. Anyway, then we went onto the dance floor and she started to grind. After dancing for a few minutes, She then turned around to face me, our faces were very close, she was looking down, and then her eyes moved slowly up to meet mine. After our eyes met, she bought her face in closer, to the point where our lips touched. I pulled away slightly, and smiled, and thats when she just went all the way with a full makeout session.
Anyway, then we finished the song, and her friends came back over. Her friends said something to her, and then she gave me her sad puppy dog face look, and said "I have to leave, but I don't want to." She smiled, gave me one more kiss, and said "I can't wait to hear from you again." then she walked away with her friends, and she kept looking back.
Now I must say, I learned a huge lesson from this. My previous interactions with girls was more like 'I'm just going to try to keep the conversation going long enough that it should be ok to ask the number'. But now I realize you have to actually do something and make her want you more than ever right from the first meeting. I just had to share this, because I definitely feel like it's all coming together for me.
Every time I went to the club in the past, it has always been a number game for me, I'd just go try to chat up as many girls as I can and to get as many numbers as I could. But, then I realized, that this isn't getting anywhere. I had the numbers, but no real attraction or rapport for these girls to remember me by. I never actually took the time to build attraction in any of these girls I approached. I finally realized quality is better than quantity. So tonight, I met less girls than I ever do, but, I still had a much better night. I took the time to talk, flirt, tease, and build attraction with these girls. So here's the story.
Tonight, as I was standing there having a drink, I pulled out my phone to see what time it was. This really cute blonde girl came over and asked if she could use my phone (Definitely a HB9). I said "Sure babe, just don't go running off with it." I handed her the phone, and as she talked I just stood there and tried the whole 'Staring into her left eye' thing. After about a minute, she hung up the phone, handed it back to me. Then she asked my name, and we got into some small talk together.
I ended up finding out it's her birthday during our convo, I gave her a birthday smooch on the cheek, and said "I bet you didn't think you'd meet the man of your dreams on your birthday." I put a nice, flirty smile on my face. This interaction with this HB9 felt very good, usually I still have butterflies in my stomach while talking. But for some reason, it's almost as if I could FEEL her attraction growing as we talked, and I felt extremely comfortable and confident with her. Finally I said "I'd like to have your number, and then a dance with you." She reached into my pocket and grabbed the phone this time, and we actually had a fun time putting it in there. I let her try to add the new contact information herself, and since she wasn't familiar with the phone, I guided her through the process.
After this, I grabbed her hand and she says "Hold on, come over here real quick." It turns out she wanted to show me to all of her friends first haha. Anyway, then we went onto the dance floor and she started to grind. After dancing for a few minutes, She then turned around to face me, our faces were very close, she was looking down, and then her eyes moved slowly up to meet mine. After our eyes met, she bought her face in closer, to the point where our lips touched. I pulled away slightly, and smiled, and thats when she just went all the way with a full makeout session.
Anyway, then we finished the song, and her friends came back over. Her friends said something to her, and then she gave me her sad puppy dog face look, and said "I have to leave, but I don't want to." She smiled, gave me one more kiss, and said "I can't wait to hear from you again." then she walked away with her friends, and she kept looking back.
Now I must say, I learned a huge lesson from this. My previous interactions with girls was more like 'I'm just going to try to keep the conversation going long enough that it should be ok to ask the number'. But now I realize you have to actually do something and make her want you more than ever right from the first meeting. I just had to share this, because I definitely feel like it's all coming together for me.