This is a collection of useful quick tips to help an AFC on the road from frustrated chump to a true DJ. Here they are:



Women generally aren't happy unless they have something to complain about.


Women will create drama just to have something to complain about and talk about with their friends.


If you care more about the relationship than she does, she will eventually leave or cheat on you.


If she is more likely to leave you than for you to leave her, she will eventually leave or cheat on you.


You can say all kinds of sh*t to women and get laid as long as you believe your own sh*t.


As soon as a woman knows that she has you completely and there is no danger of you going anywhere, it is game over and she will eventually leave you or cheat on you.


Whatever you did in the beginning to get her is exactly what you have to keep doing to keep her. Seems obvious but most guys don't do this.


A woman cannot love a man that she has no real respect for. Therefore, a woman's respect for you is the foundation of any love she'll have for you.


Never place a woman over your friends. Women come and go but good friends are harder to find.


Don't stop doing the things you like to do just because you are dating a woman now. Make her have to fit into your life, don't remake your life around her.


Never go too much out of your way for a woman. It makes her think you probably lack other options and lowers your attractiveness.


Never buy a woman something because she asked you to, only buy her something because that is what you want to do. Ex., she asks for a dress, tell her no and that you like the dresses she has now and that she doesn't need a new one right now. Then a couple weeks later, surprise her with some perfume or another small gift for no reason ( no birthday, holidays, special occassions, etc.)


Never spend time wondering whether a girl likes you or not before approaching her. Alot of girls that may like you won't show it and give off any buying signals like eye contact, etc. Just start mackin and see how she's reactin.


If you don't have a girlfriend and a girl asks you if you have a girlfriend never tell her you aren't dating anybody. Tell her you have several women you have been dating on a casual level but nothing serious. This may seem a bit dishonest but if you tell a woman you are completely alone she'll wonder why. Then she will conclude that if no other women want you, there must be a good reason and she'll lose interest.


Women need something to chase even if they never actually catch what they are chasing. It is the chase itself that they take pleasure from.


Once a woman thinks she knows everything about you and she has you all "figured out", she will lose interest and leave or cheat on you.


A true DJ can get the p*ssy without having to lie to or deceive a woman about his true intentions.


Lose any insecurities or hangups you have about sex. Develop a free and non-judgemental attitude toward women and their sexuality. Women can sense a man that they can be free and uninhibited sexually with without fear of being labeled a slut. If she senses that you are judging her in any way, her anti-slut defenses will go up fast.


Be completely comfortable with your own sexuality. Learn to enjoy your own manhood and what pleases you and never be afraid to let a woman know what you like sexually.


To be a real man you have to learn to stand on your own. Stop clinging to your friends like a baby to a wet tit and get used to doing some things on your own. Go out sometimes on your own and learn to have fun and enjoy it. This is a very attractive quality to a woman.


When a woman does something you approve of, let her know it in some way. When she does anything you disapprove of, let her know it immediately and in a strong way. This way you give her bounderies and she'll know her limits with you and respect you.


Never see two different women on the same day. Women are experts at detecting the evidence of other females on a man even if you change clothes, shower, etc.


Never tell a woman that you love her if she hasn't said that to you first.


Never assume things are serious or exclusive with a girl unless she has expressed that to you first. Don't ask to be exclusive or serious, let her ask you.


When you are with a woman, it is okay to give her one compliment. Anything more than that will be percieved as approval seeking and ass kissing. Wait until you have her isolated where you can be alone and intimidate. When you say the compliment, the words aren't important just make sure you smile, look her directly in her eyes, speak slowly and sensually, and say it like you completely believe every word.



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This is a collection of useful quick tips to put a DJ in the right mindset before going out into the game. Here they are:







Women generally aren't happy unless they have something to complain about.



Women will create drama just to have something to complain about and talk about with their friends.



If you care more about the relationship than she does, she will eventually leave or cheat on you.



If she is more likely to leave you than for you to leave her, she will eventually leave or cheat on you.



You can say all kinds of sh*t to women and get laid as long as you believe your own sh*t.



As soon as a woman knows that she has you completely and there is no danger of you going anywhere, it is game over and she will eventually leave you or cheat on you.



Whatever you did in the beginning to get her is exactly what you have to keep doing to keep her. Seems obvious but it is very true.



A woman cannot love a man that she has no real respect for.



Never place a woman over your friends. Women come and go but good friends are harder to find.



Don't stop doing the things you like to do just because you are dating a woman now. Make her have to fit into your life, don't remake your life around her.



A woman is always probing a man for weakness.



Never go too much out of you way for a woman. It makes her think you probably lack other options and lowers your attractiveness.



Never buy a woman something because she asked you to. Instead, be unpredictable. Ex., she asks for a dress, tell her no and that you like the dresses she has now and that she doesn't need a new one right now. Then a couple weeks later, surprise her with some perfume or another small gift for no reason ( no birthday, holidays, special occassions, etc.)



Never spend time wondering whether a girl likes you or not before approaching her.

Alot of girls that may like you don't want to show it and give off any buying signals like eye contact, etc. Just start mackin and see how she's reactin.



If you don't have a girlfriend and a girl asks you if you have a girlfriend never tell her you aren't dating anybody. Tell her you have several women you have been dating on a casual level but nothing serious. This may seem a bit dishonest but if you tell a woman you are completely alone she'll wonder why. Then she will conclude that if no other women want you, there must be a good reason and she'll lose interest.



Women need something to chase even if they never actually catch what they are chasing. It is the chase itself that they take pleasure from.



A true DJ can get the p*ssy without having to lie to or deceive a woman about his true intentions.



Lose any insecurities or hangups you have about sex. Develop a free and non-judgemental attitude toward women and their sexuality. Women can sense a man that they can be free and uninhibited sexually with. If she senses that you are judging her, her anti-slut defenses will go up fast.



Be completely comfortable with your own sexuality. Learn to enjoy your own manhood and what pleases you and never be afraid to let a woman know what you like.



To be a real man you have to learn to stand on your own. Stop clinging to your friends like a baby to a wet tit and get used to doing some things on your own. Go out sometimes on your own and learn to have fun and enjoy it. This is a very attractive quality to a woman.



When a woman does something you approve of, let her know it in some way. When she does anything you disapprove of, let her know it immediately and in a strong way. This way you give her bounderies and she'll know her limits with you and respect you.

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disciple said:

Whatever you did in the beginning to get her is exactly what you have to keep doing to keep her. Seems obvious but most guys don't do this.

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1. What if she misjudged you in the beginning, and you keep doing the same thing even though it was one of the other points you mentioned that she would leave or cheat on you for?

2. What if(I'm the what if police) she was mesmerized when she first met you, but she gets sick of you afterwards? (relating to being a jerk)

3. If you do remain the same person, WHAT do you keep expressing to her, if you don't know what it was in the first place? (please consider number 1&2 when you answer this)

I posted these tips twice in the same post by accident. Excuse that.


The answer to question #1 is this: The whole point of my statement is that whatever you were doing in the beginning that kept her interest level high is the basis for how you keep her interested.

For example, if you were an adventurous free spirited person when she met you and she was attracted to that and then your dating her for six months and then you lose your adventurous spirit, you'll undermine an important quality in you that excited her in the first place.

Then what happens? She'll start looking for that quality in some other guy and she'll either dump you or keep around for convenience and f*ck other guys behind your back because they satisfy a need that you don't anymore.

By the way, this is the reason why alot guys lose chicks.

They start off right and then they start getting on some other sh*t and the girl's eyes wander elsewhere.

In response to question #2, if your doing the things that makes her feel strong attraction toward you and you remain consistant, how could she get bored with you? Women get bored with a man when a man STOPS exhibiting the qualities that make the woman feel excited and horny just to be in their presence.

I think you are misinterpreting what I am saying to mean that you need to lack variety or be boring or predictable and stay in some kind of rut.

A man should keep a woman guessing and he should be spontaneous and not become predictable and boring but he should not stray from the basic qualities that hooked her in the first place.

My response to question #3 is that a man should know himself.
You should know what your attractive qualities are and if you are observant while you are interacting with women you will see the things about you that she likes.

I don't know how much experience you'd had with women but once you'd had a good amount you begin to notice things if you pay attention.

It sounds like you don't know what you may have working for you that might attract a woman.

Only experience and getting to know and developing your strengths will give you the insight you need.

This was probably best done through PM. I was thinking along the lines of how you judge yourself, and how others judge you. As an AFC people related to me, because I related to them. I had GF's, FBuddies, ONSs because of how well I got to know them. I would put them on a pedestal, and I could make them feel good about themselves. The enrgy started to die though, and I would feel bad about myself when they were not around.

I followed that rule to the T, I never changed, I would switch up my style, but they would get sick of me always being at their every call.

This was a hypothetical question... not exactly a fear of my own, but something that can easily be misinterpreted.

This line is ****ing GOLD

"Whatever you did in the beginning to get her is exactly what you have to keep doing to keep her. Seems obvious but most guys don't do this."

Gold Classic~