I know that what Im about to post is another "overanalyzed" situation and that it shouldn't even be thought of, but it HAS been bugging me for a while now and I thought id get some DJ input...

So I was walking toward the cafeteria one morning after class at our university to meet up with some friends where we normally chill. Along the way I ran into a very attractive female friend of mine (HB8-HB9) and ended up walking inside together. To my surprise, the girl I used to date(notice I said "date" not GF) and her friend who I made out with before her were sitting together with my other friends. I thought nothing of it and went to go get some food that me and my friend were gonna share(btw:she has a BF whom im cool with). When I came back with the food, me and my friend sat in a not too far table where we were secluded. As soon as I sat down and began talking to her, I noticed that the girl I used to date was looking and said something to her friend that I made out with. Thats when her friend made a 360 degree turn and looked too, and then she picked up her stuff and sat next to the girl I used to date and they both WATCHED me and my friend while pretending to study. Ok, so i knew I got there attention and made sure to look like I was having a GREAT time with my friend. I felt stupid cuz I was laughing at everything she was saying even though it wasn't the least bit funny, but I knew I had to look like I was having a GREAT time.

ME: what time's your next class?
FRIEND: 11AM
ME: HAHAHAHAHHA!
FRIEND:...hahaha(confused look)

...I know...it was ridiculous.

Finally it was just the girl I used to date that was watching cuz her friend had to go to class. She was shuffling through her papers, but her eyes were fixed on me and my HB8-9 friend...This whole thing lasted about an hour until it was time for our next class...

So what was running through those 2 breezies heads?? What was going through my "ex's" head?? Thats what Im wondering. I've told a few people about the situation and this is what the common denominators were:

*They were comparing themselves to my friend.
*The girl I used to date couldn't help but feel a little jealous.

BTW: I didn't end our dating relationship. SHE did after she found out I wasn't a bad boy and that I was a f.u.c.k.i.n. nice guy. I do have to admit that I completely AFC'd on her ass...my fault.

So, what do you guys think?

Yeah....A little over analylised. Its hard to say what was going threw there head without seeing the body lang. They may have been jelous. You may have been seeing what you wanted.....See if it happens again. Otherwise i cant see the direct relevence of the situation.....what do you want to achive? Getting back with her?

Rebound Material said:

ME: what time's your next class?
FRIEND: 11AM
ME: HAHAHAHAHHA!
FRIEND:...hahaha(confused look)

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roflmao, you would make a great comedy writer

you shouldn't care what that b*** thinks. if you are thinking of using this to get back with her, i'd just move on. old pu$$y from your afc days is not worth all the aggravation.

Take it as an IOI and also another IOI because you were social proofed. It would have been better if the girl was laughing more than you lol.

Tomatoes said:

Yeah....A little over analylised. Its hard to say what was going threw there head without seeing the body lang. They may have been jelous. You may have been seeing what you wanted.....See if it happens again. Otherwise i cant see the direct relevence of the situation.....what do you want to achive? Getting back with her?

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After being a regular on this site for the past 5-6 months i've been trying to achieve the very liberating act of moving on aka "nexting". But yea, nostalgia can hit sometimes and cmon...alot of you know how it feels to have those old memories come crashing down on you again out of nowhere...the kind of memories you'd rather forget because they're long gone and theres nothing you can do to get them back...I'd be lying off my ass if I were to say that I still didn't have a thing for her and yes, I did try to get out of the friend zone the past 6 months, but at the same time exploring other options and always trying to look ahead. During that whole scenario "Getting back with her" wasn't really my mindset. It was more like 'Getting back AT her'. As for more relevant info, a good guy friend of mine who later joined me and my HB friend also noticed that my "ex" kept glancing up and down at our table while trying to look busy. Judging from what close friends told me and you guys, maybe she did get a little jealous even if what I did wasn't too big of a revenge tactic but more of a huge coincidence.


BTW: Like I mentioned above, I've been here for 5-6 months now and have learned alot of the abreviations like AFC, SOI, PUI, HB, etc but im still not sure what IOI means...yea, damn noob right? haha =P