Here's whats up....

I met this girl at my job a few weeks ago and i've been messing around with her or whatever just trying to perfect the don juan skills... but anyways I promised myself I would not contact her/communicate with her outside of work, strictly at the place of business. All I wanted from her was alittle ass, but now she's starting to really like me and has been asking me all these leading questions so it's obvious she does. She gave me her number the other day but I never called her. I don't want to date her, **** I don't even want to be seen with her in public.

So how do I steer away from the girlfriend zone and get to where I can just get some booty with no sweat. This is often a problem with me... I can mess with girls for awhile, maybe I don't do it right, then they start liking me and as they do I become more and more shy towards them... and when I am willing to date them I can't be me. Help please!

Thanks!

Define "i was messing with". When someone says "i was messing around with her" that means kissing and doing sexual stuff.

The workplace is a real bad place to hit it/quit it. And this girl seems like shes real inexperienced (hasnt had alot of boyfriends) If you get the ass and then leave, it could turn ugly at the workplace.

The female brain thinks completely different than yours and mine. YOure thinking the whole time "i just want some sex" and shes thinkin "OMG i cant believe hes interested in me, this could be the ONE" Most women do not just want sex, they want the relationship and the whole nine yards. If you can find a chic thats ok with just sex then your set. Again women look at a man for a potential relationship, they already know when they see u if they would sleep with you or not.