“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Confidence clarified.

Gubby

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Okay, so you're meant to think of yourself as "the sh!t" right? Find it hard? Reality seems to tell you, "who d'ya think you're kidding?"

Well, if you fall short, perhaps you're fat, AFC, nerdy, you smoke and you wish you didn't, you hate your life... yeah, s'gonna be hard to think of yourself as "the sh!t". Right?

No. You've got it wrong. It doesn't matter how you are... there are bums that are ****y as hell and there are rockstars that are insecure. You won't be confident if you lose that weight or get a better job, you'd just find a new excuse.

It's not about self-delusion. Confidence means realising that it doesn't matter if you're *insert shortcoming here*. There's no such thing as inferiority or superiority... we are all equal.

Just stop caring. A fat bum that's cool with himself is far more attractive than someone who's got everything but still doesn't fit into his own skin.

Everyone's capable of having friends, getting chicks, being happy, loving life... EVERYONE. No-one's giving points. Just let go. :)
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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