About a year ago i was introduced to the whole Dj etc scene(first by other sites,DD newsletters and finaly half a year ago to this site).I as many of you was looking on "why can't i get girls even though im nicer/more handsome/intelligent than the guys i saw with HB's all my life".So i read,and i read until my eyes were red (it rhymes heh).Anyway i was sceptical at first then i tried c+f,neg and teasing (verbal and b/l stuff).I was amazed at the results,i jawdropped myself frequently.Then i moved on to the harder (and more important stuff) like kino,i must admit i was pretty scared the first time i tried to use some non-natural, "sexual" kino,like putting my arm around a girl i've known for 20mins.So one night i grabbed my balls and did it..she didnt shrug my arm off and slap me...she didn't kick me in the balls.As i read here ... F.E.A.R. , false evidence appearing real.So came the hair stroking,the kiss,the sniffing etc until i did the home run.Everytime i tried to get out of my comfort zone i was scared ****less the first time,then i did it again and again until it became my new comfort zone.

What im trying to say here is.Just because you can attract girls verbally and through b/l assume you are the **** and you can get any girl you want.So you cold approach,you have a ****load of #'s..now what?.Thus the questions of the manner "I've c+f'ed blah blah..she likes me..blah blah now what?".You know what you have to do next.Don't just "play" verbally and expect girls to spread their legs and scream "fvck me NOW!".

Expand,learn and EXPAND.Try to go from A to Z with fewer girls than A to D with alot.It is a pitfall,i was at a standstill for months,getting a girl interested,light kino and then stopped progressing until i was LJBFed.Don't do the same mistake.

Always keep advancing, never stop. 2 steps forward one step back